I'm a very patient, loving and caring person who wants someone to hang out with, cuddle, maybe more. I'm a teacher, so academics play an important role in my life, as does my career. But I'd eventually like to be a stay-at-home mom; I have to meet the right person first! I'm a strong, independent woman in most regards with a little bit of a submissive side that I enjoy entertaining. I greatly enjoy the cultural aspects of urban living and would like to share such passion with someone, but I also like staying in. With me, what you see is what you get -no games, no bs. Although I am both a teacher and a student, I greatly enjoy writing. Looking For: I'm looking for someone to go out and have a good time with, but I also like someone to stay in with. Looks don't really matter to me, but a virtuous and good nature is important. I'm looking for someone who takes a genuine interest in helping mankind; this is an important value to me. I feel that family comes first, and I'm looking for a mate who feels the same way. Money also does not matter as long as someone has their affairs in order. I wanted to be treated with respect for being the intelligent, educated person I am, but I need a man who's a little forceful in the bedroom (but still knows the meaning of "no").